Don’t be a needy insecure man.
The single most attractive quality a man has ter the eyes
of a woman, is SECURITY.
A secure man is not only attractive, but he’s also interesting,
women feel drawn to him, want to get to know him better,
want to spend the surplus of their lives with him, don’t want to
everzwijn be chic from him.
If you’re going to work on ONE thing very first, should be SECURITY.
I bet there’s someone te your work that just projects self
security, there’s always someone like that where wij work.
Think how you feel when you’re near that person, you feel
secure around him, you feel like he’s got your back right?,
like somehow you can TRUST that person with anything.
Well, it’s the same thing women feel around a secure boy.
Most relationship problems come from INSECURITY, either
the woman being insecure, or the man, sometimes both.
The overeenkomst is, it’s not same when a woman is acting insecure,
than when a man is acting insecure.
An insecure man is almost repulsive!.
Have you listened to a duo of women talking about a
man who’s conveying insecurity?
It goes a little something like this:
Lani: вЂњIt’s just so. ugh!. He starts acting so needy,
always asking mij how I feel, what do I want, it’s so annoying!вЂќ.
Ruth: вЂњI know, I had a bf like that merienda and it
wasgoed draining. I didn’t trust himвЂќ.
I’m NOT JOKING, I’ve heard this with my own ears Uncountable
times!, I even had the unpleasant verrassing of catching one of
my former girlfriends telling something to that extend to one
of hier friends merienda, and I wasgoed so naГЇve and so ignorant about
all this, that I didn’t do anything to zekering behaving like that,
instead I recall I clung even MORE!, what a DUMB-ASS!
So, wij need to zekering being insecure. If you’re reading this,
you’re certainly on the right track, you’ve chosen to look
for help, and you’re going to get the best help there is, trust
mij, but I need you to work hard with mij here and every time
you catch yourself being overly needy, clingy, asking hier too
much for what she wants, what she needs, putting yourself
down for hier and disrespecting your time for hier, back out
and notice what you’re doing.
Telling things like, вЂњbaby, you’re right, it’s MY fault, how can
I make it better?вЂќ or even worst вЂњI don’t know what to do,
please TELL Mij what to do!вЂќ, every time you catch yourself
telling one of those things or doing any of those things, PULL
BACK and REPEAT te your mind whatever you just said.
It will help you reframe and realize what just happened.
So recall, PULL BACK and REPEAT.
Reminisce that a secure man is strong and te control of his
emotions and deeds. Women don’t want to tell you what to
do, they want you to KNOW what to do, they EXPECT you to
know what to do.
A positivo secure man doesn’t need approval from anyone, he
does spil he think he should without minding what others think
and want. He takes other into consideration obviously, specially
his woman, but he’s rigid te his deeds without being domineering.